I seem to have been shoved into the presence of confrontational people so often. I might possibly have some sort of unseen signal which attracts them. I’ve said before, I don’t like arguments, I don’t like confrontation. Confrontation is a form of aggressive bullying, not giving the one being confronted a chance to say anything edge wise and when a word or two does manage to get squeezed in, its bulldozed into oblivion. In addition to this I totally despise a raised voice and shouting. The whole situation solves nothing, it only feeds the confrontational one with whatever it’s feeing on from this. I don’t know, is it some strange lunatic way of boosting their own ego? Is it they produce too much adrenaline? Are they just simply horrible bullies? What I can’t stand most about it is that it makes me start questioning and doubting myself.
Give me calm open minded logical conversation and I’ll be a purring little pussy cat.